How to Verify if Your Fiancé is a US Military Soldier Deployed in Syria
Introduction
Online relationships can be exciting but also fraught with potential scams. One common scenario is when a person claims to be a US military soldier deployed in Syria, but could be just another scammer. Here are steps to verify whether your fiancé is legitimate and not a fraud.
Signs of a Scam
If you’ve been in contact with someone claiming to be a US military soldier and you’ve never met them in person, there’s a good chance you are dealing with a scammer. Scammers often fabricate stories to gain your trust and then exploit it for financial gain.
Common Red Flags
You haven’t met your fiancé in person. Your fiancé has requested money or personal information from you. Your fiancé asks for your social security number or credit card information. Your fiancé avoids direct contact or video calls to verify their identity.Questions to Ask for Verification
Basic Military Information
Branch of Service
Ask your fiancé what branch of the military they are in. This is typically easy to confirm by checking their rank and unit.
Unit and Deployment Status
Find out the specific unit and the location where your fiancé is deployed. You can cross-check this information on official military websites or through your local Base of Operations (BASE) for families.
Personal Details
Have You Met In Person?
This is crucial. If you have never met your fiancé in person, they are likely a scammer. Scammers typically only interact online to build a false relationship and then ask for money or personal details.
Email and Mailing Address
Request the military email address of your fiancé. All members of the military have one and it ends with .mil. Additionally, ask for the mailing address. If it is an APO (Army Post Office) address, it further confirms that they are a military person but does not confirm deployment.
Verification of Deployment
Check to see if your fiancé has asked you for anything. If they have not asked for financial assistance or personal details, including details about their deployment, they are likely not as legitimate as you think.
The Role of the Red Cross
The American Red Cross is a well-known organization that provides humanitarian services to military personnel and their families. However, they help only those who are officially recognized. If your fiancé isn't on the DD 1172 form, the Red Cross cannot help them. These forms are required for the Red Cross to provide services.
Conclusion
Be cautious and verify the authenticity of your fiancé. If any of the signs of a scammer apply, block and report the profile immediately. The steps above can help you in your verification process and protect you from being scammed.